Who Should File for Divorce First?
Know the Advantages of Being the First to File
There are times in an unhappy marriage where both spouses can feel that a divorce in the near future. When you are in this type of situation, the question is "Should I file for divorce first?"
So, is it better to file for divorce first? Here are some of the different personal, legal and financial advantages to being the first to file for divorce in California.
Choice of Jurisdiction
Filing first for divorce allows you to choose what location the divorce will be adjudicated. If you and your spouse live in different areas, both of which have proper jurisdiction, it could be helpful to not have to travel to their location for court proceedings.
Also, different places have different rules towards aspects such as child custody or division of marital assets. It is highly recommended to look into the laws pertaining to both places and see which would be more beneficial to you. It is also important to know that a case must be filed in the proper jurisdiction, which our team can help you determine.
First to Present
Being the first to file for divorce can make you the first to present your case in court. This can allow you to calmly share your experiences and evidence without having to immediately respond to what your spouse says. You will also often have the opportunity to rebut what your spouse says after their presentation.
If you predict a divorce in the future, it is important to set aside money to be prepared for legal fees and any support you need. You should also make sure to have a credit card in only your name since it could be more difficult to do later on.
Withdrawal of Petition
The first person to file for divorce is also given the right to withdraw the petition if necessary. Sometimes you realize that it is not the right time for a divorce; perhaps you and your spouse decide to work on the marriage instead or the stress becomes too inconvenient.
If you and your spouse have children together, filing first will also allow you to maintain the children's schedule and where they live until a later court date. This way the other spouse cannot make unwanted changes in the child's life before the divorce is filed. The court decides the status quo during the time the motion is filed.
On top of the legal and financial benefits of filing for divorce first, it can also provide personal ones. Going through a divorce is a stressful and hurtful time. When you file first, you can feel as though you have control over the situation and the ways you want to change your life. We at Moore, Schulman & Moore, APC, are here to guide you through the whole process.
Turn to a Team of Experienced Legal Professionals
It is also helpful to already have a divorce team lined up. Finding the right lawyer is a difficult and timely process. If you already have your attorneys set, you won't waste any time in being prepared and knowing what legal steps you need to take. If you are not prepared, your spouse could meet with the lawyers you are interested in before you get the chance. This would establish an attorney-client relationship and make that attorney off limits to you.
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